…isn’t part of falling in love the surprise, the serendipity, the fun of the astonishing, unpredictable, caught-off-guard feeling that comes from getting pistol-whipped by Cupid’s glock (arrows are so passé) when you least expect it? (I think I’ve mentioned this before, but I used to say all I wanted was a guy who’d take me out for steak and champagne; now I’m in love with a vegan who doesn’t drink.)